Since it is Tea on Tuesday, here is a scene that I would love to be inside of- since my thermometer reads 10 degrees (maybe even 9!) at 7:30 am!
Photo courtesy of LINK
Today, I would like to share a childhood memory that came to me while sipping my tea………
When I was a kid, skateboards were becoming the “in” thing to have. I remember a neighbor, Pam- I would like to think she was a friend- but really I think, most of the time we were frenemies.
Seemed like Pam had everything. She had a St. Bernard named Bernie, some bunnies in a hutch out in the back yard. She was popular- having grown up in the neighborhood I had only recently moved in to.
She was the doted on baby of her family, got everything her heart desired- in my child eyes.
Her grandma made clothes for her dolls and trolls. I did get Pam’s grandma to make a nitegown and cap for my favorite stuffed bunny (I still have it somewhere!) She probably felt sorry for me- and I am sure I was a pest!
Pam even got boobs before I did – and probably a boyfriend- and to show off that blossoming figure, had a brown madras dress I so coveted!!!!
Pam and I would play together, walk the ” balance beam” on the white board fence that edged her yard, put secret notes to each other in a tiny cubby in the fence post, and rescue baby animals together. When her rabbit had babies, I got one – named Joey, and my grandfather built him a wonderful hutch.
But, I digress…….
When the neighborhood kids started to get skateboards, Pam, of course, got the best one ever!!
Her dad had a great wood shop in his garage. He made this beautiful polished wood aerodynamically shaped skateboard that was the envy of the neighborhood – and ME!
I know I must have begged her to ask her dad to make me one – but she did not. In my mind, she loved to lord it over all that she had the best dad AND the best skateboard.
My parents knew how much I wanted a skateboard, and set about making one for my brother and I.
Dad did not have a wood shop, and was not that proficient in that area, as far as I know. But, he and my mom were talented roller skaters- so they had that going for them.
My mom was artistic- and they put together these skateboards and painted them for my brother and I.
Of course we loved them, but I’m guessing I did not appreciate them as much as I should have – being a kid that had been bitten by the green eyed envy monster.
My skateboard was “merely” a rough plank of wood- probably slightly larger than a 2 x 4- with roller skate wheels and painted by my mother. I think the paints were from my father’s model airplane paints – one of the boards was painted silver with a black arrow. Dad attached a little eye hook at the end, so the skateboard could be hung in the attic storage when not in use.
I know I spent endless hours riding that board down my street- but it in no way compared to the aerodynamic wonder Pam’s dad had crafted. Kids are cruel, and I know I did not appreciate what my parents had created for me- as I do now!
I still see that skateboard in my mind’s eye, and wish I still had it – when I could have passed it down to my kids. But, my son had a store bought skateboard- very modern, aerodynamic, and expensive. I hope he appreciated it back then, I think he did.
It is still in the basement – he won’t part with it…..
I could never balance on a skateboard.. I have no idea why.
when I think of skate boards I think of how useful they are for moving furniture hah!
having a cup of tea…of course…pop by if you have a minute Pat 😉
oxo
I thought the first photo WAS your house. Looks very inviting.
Great story. You tell it so well. Gives me hope that the things I do for my kids now (that go unappreciated) will be appreciated in retrospect when they are older. The green eyed envy monster is SO bad, but no one is immune! I had “Pams” in my life too. Never had a skateboard tho (never wanted one-ha!)
Yes, indeed. I think we all remember things and times we should have enjoyed fully, but only do in retrospect.